The Duke and Duchess of Sussex grew up with divorced parents who had a lasting impact on their adult life, according to Caroline Strawson, an accredited divorce and positive psychology coach. Strawson explained that the children of divorced couples have gone through the mental challenge of separation, and that they want to do their best to avoid experiencing their own rape. Speaking of Meghan and Harry, it's no coincidence that the 30s waited until they got married.
Strawson said: biliy Those who are experiencing the difficulty of divorce spend more time deciding on getting married because they know the effect of the divorce, and they don't want to go through it at all. St
This behavior can be seen not only in Meghan's and Harry's relationships, but also in his first marriage to Meghan's filmmaker Trevor Engelson.
The Los Angeles-based talent scout and then-actress Meghan began dating in 2004, but in 2011 they married only seven years later.
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Strawson added: arı Significant conversations are made before they are married, then they guarantee that big problems do not arise and that they make the right decision. St
Strawson said the couples from the combined families who married in their 20s saw the divorce as an için easy option to get rid of the problems m, but couples like Meghan and Harry said they saw # the trauma they created St.
He continued: ler After marriage, especially with the children, they make a conscious effort when they have a problem, they advise, if something is not true before they come to the disaster stage, they communicate with each other.
Di Their past experience has given them a built-in radar that helps them realize that things are not going well and will intervene immediately.
Although it is true that divorce can mentally injure children, people like Meghan and Harry, who have often lived through trauma most of the time, often do not focus on the negative side of their parents' failed marriage, but they are learning something from it. .
He explained: ne Instead of just looking at them as a negative thing, they see it as a learning aspect, not what will happen to them. Ş
Meghan's parents Thomas Markle Snr and Doria Ragland married in 1979 and divorced in 1987 when he was only six years old.
Prince Harry was 12 years old when Princess Diana and Prince Charles signed the divorce papers, but they lived with their dismal splits and scandals, including the fluffy interview published by Princess Diana in 1995 when Charles and Camilla had quit.
Strawson thinks that the divorce of Charles and Diana gives public attention to Harry the extra reason to work relentlessly to make his tie with Meghan as strong as now.
He said, ılan Especially with Harry, who is very outspoken about his mental health problem, you can see the strain created by the divorce caused by the public eye, the very important they need, which makes it natural for them to realize their marriage. work on. "